How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to b

I don't want to be rude but come on. She shows up to pick the kids up in sweats and her hair in a pony tail.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Just tell her that if you wanted your kids associating with 'her kind' you would move to W.VA. and live in a trailer. Or, just ask her all the time if she is tired. or moving. or pregnant. She will catch the hint eventually that she looks like shite.

I know EXACTLY what you mean. These are the type who go to discount book stores, drink store bought coffee, (already ground!!!) **shudder** and buy shoes at Payless!

I can just picture her Kmart slip on's, frumpy T's and baggy sweats. Run while you can!

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

And that is why YOU ROCK! Report It

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Don't let the angry people bother you.

Jealousy makes people mean and ugly. Report It

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

gottisanatomy: I humbly beg your pardon, I am glad that you were joking.

I usually don't go off half-****** like that, and this is a perfect example of WHY.

Your sense of humor has been noted, and I won't let it happen again!

Respectfully submitted: X Report It

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

YOU ARE SUCH A SNOT I PICK UP MY KIDS IN SWEATS WITH A PONYTAIL OK DRINK STARBUCKS COFFEE ALMOST EVERY DAY Report It

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

One day you will get whats coming to you, for looking down on people...Here Today, GONE Tomorrow, sweetheart...you should be ashamed of yourself... Report It

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Wow.

This has to be a joke, right?

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

I think they could probably find better friends. You sound like a snot.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Maybe she is working out to stay in shape. That does not equate with being beneath you.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

I dont think you should teach your children to be prejudiced like you.... so the sweat pants and pony tail make these people below you in life...I think not!!! Get over your self you sound like you need help...

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

It shouldn't bother you that the kids are friends, because believe me, I am above you on the social ladder and I am talking to you.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Tell her she has no business hanging around such a snob as yourself!!! She's probably a better mother! In fact, it's better you say nothing because anything you could say to her would be rude.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

You can't. And be mindful of the fact that there are others who are just as capable of judging you. I think you are a snob, and I look down on ALL snobs. And just what kind of social ladder do you think you are on? Are you surrounded by the kind of "people" that compare cars, incomes, homes, looks, and kids only to overlook their own detrimental behaviors? Can you admit even one flaw about yourself? Are you so self-absorbed that decorum is more important than acceptance? You are on the same social level as the rest of us. Your pedestal may make you feel taller, but the base is weak. And if you are so great, why don't you post your picture? I find it interesting that you exercise avoidant behavior and you are an avid runner. You would make for a great subject on anyones psych thesis. Good luck in life. I see a lot more pain coming your way and no one can run from it, even you.

Kudos to JenJen

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

how bad can she REALLY be?? at least she is dressed!

susan

ps- arrogant jerks should be judged in a battle of wits... in which the loser is certain to be an arrogant jerk!

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

biggot. I hope you become a victim of identity theft for that one.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Must be nice to live so high and mighty.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Oh my god. You are being such a *****! Who cares if she is wearing sweats? She is probably comfortable. She is a confident person.. knowing she is beautiful without trying to prove it! You on the other hand, think you got something to flaunt! Also, your clothes must be to conservative and tight.. cause you got something stuck up in your a.s.s!

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Below you? Give me a break do you know the parents circumstances have you walked a mile in there shoes ?That just sounds so ignorant.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Fair question, I htink you should just focus on getting your kids higher class friends and they wont want the lower class ones. Also dont take the ignorance from people on here I thin kit is a fair consideration.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

You might be raising kids, but it sounds to me like you have some growing up of your own to do. Let them be friends with whomever they like.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Wow you're gonna have screwed up kids. It's the new millenium and it's about time you stopped feeding yout cat sheeba in a crystal goblet, and certainly time you loosen up. It's called casual and you could try it.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

what is she supposed to wear? a fricken cocktail dress? You sound like a B*tch and I feel sorry for your children.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

I don't know who you think you are. What social latter says that you cant pick you kids up in sweats and a pony tail. What ever social ladder your on, you re bound to fall off sometime soon. get a life, lady. and stop worrying about everyone elses.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

You're just asking for a lot of rude comments asking this question.......I don't agree with you at all, but I can attempt to answer your question....well....maybe....lets see....hmmm....yeah can't come up with anything. Are you afraid of your kids getting lice or somthing? They might just teach your children tolerance and openmindedness. Idiot.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

not all peoples friends are ordered like--rich with the rich poor with the poor--thats like saying only gay people have gay friends and people with blond hair only have friends with long hair--

maybe instead of rubbing your rich *** all over the place strutting it to people that dont give a rats *** whether you are rich or poor or hold the answer to where they buried jimmy hoffa---and spread your wealth by buying them nice clothes and showing what friendship is truly about

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

What, you expect pearls and high heels?

I suspect she is far above you on any social ladder that matters.

If you have to worry so much about what people look like then you cannot be very concerned with the substance.

People of substance have no time to be bothered with trying to look like something they are not.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

You have no idea what the lady might be going through in her life. Just think how you would feel if somebody was saying your kids weren't good enough for them. As high up the social ladder you may think you are, there is always someone higher up!! Give this person a chance and find out what they are like on the inside, not what they are wearing...

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

i really hope your not raising your children to be like you...that would be abuse. i happen to wear a ponytail and sweats.... guess what, i own my own home, family business, have great kids. and guess what im not a snob

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

I sleep in my underwear.

Does everyone have to allot time fix themselves up before going into public?

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

What a terrible lesson to teach your child...are you perfect..does a hair ever blow out of place...maybe she pays less attention to her appearance and more attention to her kids..get some sweats and go play with your kids...they'll love you more than that your self proclaimed placement on the social ladder...and remember...you can always fall from that ladder!

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

This is essentially rude. There is no way to state this without being impolite. It is a bold declaration of position and power that labels people as acceptable or unacceptable based on social status.

Your kids need her kids. Her kids need yours. I hope you change your mind.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Are you talking about me? I didn't think my sweats bothered people. Time to bust out the stillettos, your gonna wish you never started this. You should have left well enough alone.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

nobody is better than anyone. You should be ashamed of yourself. If you think your better than her your not. Everything comes back to haunt you remember that.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

You can't always pick your kids' friends. Plus, if the kids are nice and play well with your kids, who care's? You don't have to be best friends with the Mom who has no intention of selling out to some outdated "Americana" ideal of keeping up with the Jones'. We all come into the world and leave this world in the same "fashion", you won't be able to take your social status with you into the next world because God doesn't give a sh!t for your kind.

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

You do not sound to be a very good parent nor a human being., I am a professional with a very high social status and I truly believe that one must teach our children that they should not socialize with other children for the "reasons" which you stated. You are sound very ignorant . . . .

How can you tell another parent that they are to far below us on the social ladder for our kids to be friends?

Sounds like I wouldn't allow my kids around you. That is so snotty. Some people don't have the convince that everyone else has. If the mother is a slob doesn't mean that you should treat a child bad. Maybe the mother would feel better about herself if she had someone to talk to or even have her child spend some time with. I don't like snobby *** people. I go places with my hair in a pony tail and with my sweats on. But I am not trying to impress the world. Sounds like you are trying to prove something that you are not. I am not low class or consider myself low class. I have a very nice home, husband, car, etc... And I take time to talk to people that may be "BELOW" me. My husband and I were not on the same social class and if I would have been like you I would have missed out on someone great!!!

I assume you are not christian and if you are you are not serving GOD the way he wants you to. Open your heart and be glad that people would want to talk to you or your child. Life is to short to be an ***.